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The Wicked in My Wild Wicked Weekend ’15

I went to a dungeon.

I didn’t intend to go. I’ve certainly had opportunity before, and it never appealed to me. I would have said the same thing about strip clubs three years ago, and look at me now. Yep, that was me on a strip club tour of Texas!

Still…a dungeon? Seeing the stuff that goes on there in person is way different from images, let alone the show my mind produces to fill a blank page. I had no doubt that I’d prefer my imagination.

I was right…and wrong.

It would be easy to explain that last cryptic sentence by describing what I saw in detail, but I can’t. Even if I hadn’t signed a legal agreement that I would keep my lips zipped, I respect the courage it took for the members to let me into their world. I’m also slightly envious. The acceptance inside those walls is a palpable thing that I felt the moment I stepped inside the door.

The more time I spent there, the more I understood how freeing it is to be allowed to simply be who you are, even if what you are is plain vanilla in a room full of (Ben and Jerry’s) Everything But The…, and Karamel Sutra. There wasn’t a single moment when I didn’t feel…safe. I was not the only “virgin” in our group, but I was the only one still, um, intact when we left. (Or was I? More on that in a minute!) I was the interloper, yet I was never treated as such. Everyone there from the kind and informative sub who gave us the tour, to the Master of the dungeon himself went out of their way to make sure I was okay with what I was seeing, and it wasn’t about his or her own self-preservation. (Inserting my sincere gratitude to the Doms I came with who took turns making sure I wasn’t shell-shocked. Had I figured out more quickly why someone was always with me, I’d have sent you off to play sooner!)

So what did I discover that I can tell you about?

That I may not be so vanilla after all. Or maybe a more accurate description is vanilla with a few sinful toppings. I did see a lot that ran the gamut from sensual to severe. The only surprising part was finding out that seeing the severe play out a few feet from me did not make me uncomfortable. Not surprisingly, it did not make me want to be on either end of the spectrum. For me, the allure wasn’t about seeing the delivery of the strike, but watching the reaction to the reaction. How the Dom reacted with such love and caring to the sub’s pain, and the aftercare that followed.

The sounds are a different story. Sitting in the outer room and hearing the crack or thwack, followed by a cry of desire-filled pain was HOT! Would it have been the same anywhere but where it was safe to assume all participants are not only willing, they’re appreciative? No. But it was safe, they were willing, and my muse was very happy to hear it.

I discovered that there are various types of kinks for all of us, and various kinks to all of us, whether the Dom, the sub, the giver, the taker, the voyeur. That brief list barely scratches the surface.

So here’s the “more on that in a minute” portion, because I promised, and because you clicked on a story with the word dungeon, on a blog named 69 Shades of Smut… There was one play that did appeal, and (big surprise!) I was firmly in the sub camp. I only wish I had seen it play out closer, but for various reasons that won’t leave my zipped lips, I kept my distance.

I can, however, tell you what it was about that particular play that was appealing. This was the sensual kink. We’re talking oils, massage, light intermittent spanks and such. I couldn’t hear a thing, so this was visual, and I could only see the Dom. It was seeing the complete rapture on the man’s face. Watching him touch what was in front of him with such grateful reverence…yeah, that did it for me. I can’t help wondering if the woman felt that from him, too.

So there you have it. Will I go again? Probably. Hell, wouldn’t you?

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Wanted: Input from fellow smutters and dirty birds.

So did that subject line catch your attention or what? LOL Well if it did, then mission accomplished. I really do need your input, so here are the details.

As you some of you know, I have the Pleasure Garden Follies trilogy launching this summer with Secret Cravings Publishing, and I hope to share some other news soon, but haven’t been given the thumbs up yet. In the meanwhile, I do have a novel I have planned to finish writing, and another series to begin writing. Now this is where I need you.

I’m in the process of outlining a new project tentatively entitled the Morning After series. These books are going to be hot-to-trot, and probably the most scandalous thing I have ever written to date. Be prepared for office romance, kink–lots of kink, and menage scenarios. One of the things I’m struggling with is the names, and I thought I’d engage my readers by offering you the opportunity to help me come up with some not so ordinary names.

To be clear, I’m in the market for two female and two male names. Got any ideas on what I should call my guys and gals?

To make this fair and perhaps a little more fun, for any of the names I wind up using, I’ll give away a $5 Amazon gift card. That means you have four chances to win. So what do you say, are up for this? I’ll leave this contest open until my next post on May 30th and announce the winners then.

I look forward to reading your suggestions.

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A Sensuous Bite…

CASSANDRE DAYNE

Mmm… Doesn’t that sound delicious right about now? 

Do you love to take a bite out of your man? Close you eyes for me and imagine a moment of passion that you’re sharing together  – just you and your man perhaps lounging by the pool or perhaps in front of a roaring fire. Don’t you love to inhale the rich scent of your man and love the musky fragrance of his body? I love to lick across the seam of his mouth before nibbling down his chin to his neck and licking all…the…way down and…well, you get the saucy idea. Have you ever kicked up the heat and used something perhaps to make him even tastier? Now I’m not talking about all those luscious edible treats you can buy in a sex shop.

Who needs edible undies when you can slather your lover with something truly delicious, completely edible and oh so sexy? The question is would you prefer champagne or chocolate? Jam or Honey? Have you ever thought about a setting up a delicious night where you leave all caution to the wind? Perhaps you will start out lounging in front of a roaring fire with a lovely glass of wine, a basket of toys and romantic or primal music playing as an appetizer. Maybe you can offer your partner a sensual relaxing massage and light some candles. Whispering a soft poem or reading a naughty passage from your favorite erotic writer, you can tell when he or she is ready for a wicked adventure.

Then the real fun can begin! I love to think of creative ways of using food and beverages and perhaps some very normal household items you wouldn’t necessarily think of as the perfect erotic toy and incorporating them into my stories. I write very sexual and sometimes downright kinky treats about fantasies and we all have them. You never know what might become a brand new yummy toy unless you try it out, using that wicked and sinful part of your imagination. I must admit that two of my favorite items I use both in stories and out are a bit of bubbly and melted, gooey, dark chocolate. Getting a bit thirsty are you? Let’s look at the pros and cons of using food and drink as a festive aphrodisiac.

Champagne – it’s frothy and cold and the effervescent bubbles can give you a perfect little kick inside your mouth, leaving that taste that lingers perfectly. Now, close your eyes and just imagine what effects it can have on your partner. Intrigued? Without getting into anything too graphic, envision taking a huge gulp and then leaning over your man, pressing your lips across his and forcing them open slightly. As the feel of hot and cold slice into his system, you can imagine that single whimper that leaves his mouth as he wraps his hands around your waist and draws you in so tightly that you are left breathless and desperately hungry to taste more of him.

Then just think about another long sip and edging down the length of his chest, inching toward…nirvana. Okay, I know, is it getting hot in here? I can tell you that the effects are invigorating and delicious on both a man and a woman by the way. Now reverse the situation until you are lying on your back and he is pressing kisses down the length of your body,,,pulsing his tongue across the heat of her tender flesh until your hand flutters down to grip his hair, longing to yank him to that sinful place you need. I can tell you ladies that the feeling is truly scintillating.

Champagne is tasty and refreshing and it certainly doesn’t have to be expensive. It is also not particularly messy and can be controlled. That is…if you want to. Let’s look at molten chocolate.

At this point I am thinking about the chocolate fondue. Imagine that perfect crackling fire again and this time you have a snazzy bottle of merlot, Kenny G on the stereo and fruits and cheeses on a silver platter just waiting to be consumed. Take a tasty nip and savor the flavor in the back of your mouth. It’s rich and warm with that incredible hint of raspberry or hazelnut. You dip the succulent strawberry inside and wait as he watches you for…long…wicked…seconds…until…you consume…the luscious…fruit. Lick! You heated up yet?

Envision taking your finger, dipping into the gooey warmth and easing it out, finally slathering it across the seam of his mouth before you capture his lips, pressing your tongue inside to combine the rich tastes of his masculinity and the luscious treat. Tip his head back as you trace your finger down and across his chin, nibbling all the way as you go further down until…

Hmmm…tough choice. What do you guys think? Succulent and sweet or tangy and ripe? I am having a hard time deciding. Granted one is messier than the next, but… I would love to hear from you. What is your choice and tell me why? And…have you used something else to tempt and taunt. Perhaps a little bit of honey or a taste of raspberry cream? There are endless possibilities.

Jam – think about dripping homemade strawberry jam down from his neck in a zigzag line of pure lust. He’ll be all stick and sweet and hot for you. Straddle his body and take a nibble or two. Honey is just as incredible of an aphrodisiac for me as it’s thick enough not to trickle in the places you don’t want it to and yet so tasty. One more luscious thought happens to be a Popsicle. Remember when we were kids and ran after the ice cream man or perhaps when mom came home in the summer with a box full of frozen treats? Didn’t you want to lick the delicious frozen creation until it dripping all over the kitchen floor? Why don’t you buy a boy and share it this weekend? There are many ways of using the treat. Mmm… I know what you’re thinking – a sticky mess. Is there anything wrong with taking a hot shower together afterwards? Perhaps a massage would be in order after that…just thinking!

I hope I’ve given you some delicious ideas and you can always invent a new and very wicked treat of your own. The next time you step in front of the fridge or your pantry, imagine the possibilities! Do you have some very sexy ideas? I hope so…

Kisses   xxx

Cassandre

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