Welcome guest blogger Rhonda Carver and leave a comment to win!

I hear this all of the time, “My husband (boyfriend) and I have been together for so long that sex has become boring.”  Sex should never be boring. Never, ever, I say !! Most people experiment with different hairstyles more often than they change up the routine in the bedroom.  It’s time to break through the chains that bind us to boring sex and give kinky a shot. Where to begin? How about a different position? Here are a few that range from easy to downright difficult. Some of these moves are an excellent work out as well as increasing the intensity of the big O.

  1. On the edge

Skill level: Easy. The woman sits on the edge of a chair or couch and the man positions himself between her legs.

  1. Arch

Skill level: Intermediate. The woman rests on her shoulders while keeping her lower half off the bed, making a bridge. The man is between her legs, and supporting her weight with his hands on her thighs (or buttocks).

  1. BedsideDoggy

Skill level: Easy. It’s the same as doggy-style, but instead of both being on the bed the man is standing. The woman is positioned with her rear up and he is behind her.

  1. Lotus

Skill level: Difficult. Much like the missionary position, the couple is facing and it can be very intimate. The man is sitting and the woman is on top, cowgirl-style. The woman has most of the thrusting control, but the man can help out by placing his hands on her butt and lifting her up and down.

  1. Standing

Skill level: Challenging. The man is standing and he is holding the woman, her legs are wrapped around his waist. The man has all of the thrusting control. If this doesn’t work, she can have one leg steadied on the floor, while keeping the other wrapped around his waist.


Dreaming Ivy book blurb:

Can a past love become their future?

The Thorntons’ mansion is full of timeless secrets waiting to be unraveled. When small-town journalist Ivy and ghost hunter Max are stuck in the forgotten, dilapidated house, they find more than just a haunting. Ivy finds herself dreaming of the former owners, Marcus Thornton and his lovely wife, Elizabeth. Their profound love was once the talk of the town, and the cause their mysterious, untimely deaths never found. When Ivy’s dreams begin to become reality, the mystery starts to unravel and sheds truth on more than just the past.


Ivy stepped into the corridor. She stopped and listened. Out of the corner of her eye she saw a shadow sweep across the wall. She turned as it disappeared. “Hello?” No answer. She stomped down the hall and burst into the room. “Hello–”

The room was empty.

Ivy swallowed the taste of fright. A shiver raced across her skin. She had seen someone, or had she? She rubbed her eyes. Maybe the shadows were playing tricks on her.

A loud crack in the floor behind her sent Ivy twisting. The sun from the window blinded her. She acted on impulse. She drew her fist back and punched–landing on something solid. The force behind her connection with skin and bone sent her off balance, flailing backward. A hand on her wrist pulled her hard against a steely frame.

She met a dark stare, just as she felt wobbling. The impact of her body had sent him a step back. He lost his balance. Together they fell. The air whooshed from his chest as Ivy landed on top of the stranger.

She closed her eyes and remained still. She wanted nothing more than for the floor to swallow her. Several long seconds floated by. Neither of them said a word. She finally opened her eyes.

Embarrassed and confused, Ivy laid her palms against his shoulders, pushing herself up. She looked directly into his not-so-pleased expression and gulped. Enchanting green eyes, prominent cheekbones, midnight hair…and a pissed-off set to his jaw. She’d made a mistake–a huge one. “Max Shepard.” It wasn’t a question.

He narrowed his eyes. “Ivy Kennedy, journalist and amateur boxer?”

The deep, rich tone of his voice did funny things to the pit of her stomach. His voice wasn’t the only toned part of him. Pressed together gave her an up close and personal testimonial of his physical assets. Broad chest, tight abs to long legs, she could feel tight muscles and a curious bulge. She scooted her hip around the swelling in his jeans. Heat and realization spread through her body.

One corner of his mouth lifted. “It’s my cell.” Could he see straight through her?


He reached into his pocket and held up his phone. Ivy was certain her skin changed into the perfect color of mortification. She wondered just how bad this could get. Pasting a smile on her face, she said, “Nice to meet you.” The temperature rose between them into the triple digits. Their bodies seemed to melt together. He didn’t look like the pictures she’d seen on the internet. He looked more distinguished in person. “You’re older than I thought,” she blurted.


“Older, in a good way.” She licked her bottom lip and nervously pushed her hair behind her ear. “My mother said I have a bad habit of saying the most awkward things and rambling–” She swallowed. “–like I am now.” She moved slightly.

His zipper started to swell again. Was that another cell phone in his pocket, or… Before her mind could complete the thought, he wrapped his large hands around her waist and lifted her off him. He set her on her feet as he came to stand in front of her. “That’s better,” he said as he backed up. “Damn.” He kicked rug that must have been the reason behind their fall.

He stood there, silent. This was a complete disaster. She’d managed to give him a black eye to match the dark scowl on his face. She needed to start searching for a new job. Marshall would have her head for this.


Rhonda Lee Carver’s Bio:

Suffering from years of hopeless romantic notions with sexy, sassy heroines and bad-ass heroes taking residence in her mind, Rhonda decided to write, bringing the stories alive. With baby on hip and laptop on the other, and a couple of years later, Rhonda has published six eBooks with a handful of spicy love stories waiting for the final touches.

When Rhonda isn’t crafting edge-of-your-seat, sizzling novels, you will find her with her children, watching soccer, watching a breathtaking movie, traveling to exotic places, doing (or trying) yoga, and finding new ways to keep her smile bright.

Rhonda thrives on making her readers happy. She believes life can be a challenge, but reading makes it easier. Everyone deserves romance—one page at a time…

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20 thoughts on “Welcome guest blogger Rhonda Carver and leave a comment to win!

  1. yganoe

    Love that you rate the different style with difficulty levels…. sometimes it does take a bit of ingenuity 🙂


  2. Love the lotus! Thanks for the suggestions and for writing great books!! rings@wwt.net


  3. Love your thinking on Styles. Lotus is so intimate and brings out the Kinky fun for both !


  4. Love how you listed positions and their difficulty level. Even happier that I was able to check them all off as “done”…Hahaha!


    • Hi, Kitt. Love your comment. There are so many more positions… Looks like I’m going to have to write another blog on this subject 🙂


      • I think that would be fantastic! I’ll have to start printing them out so that I can count my notches down…and the ones I haven’t tried…well, that just means I have a lucky man to practice on, right? 😉


        • I’m going to hold you to that, Kitt 🙂 Looks like you could be a busy person (in many ways) in the near future. Give your man a warning ;))


          • Kitt Crescendo

            Ha! He’s been working out…;-)


            • Kitt, I’ve gotta tell ya… My man reads my blogs and loves them. In fact, he tells me all of the time that he’ll be up for any experimenting to help in a good cause (my writing, that is). I tell him that it’s a good thing he works out as much as he does :))


            • Kitt Crescendo

              Yeah, my hubby took a peek at my WIP while he was in the office checking on his fantasy football teams. He came back out and said, “Lovey, you’re a naughty, naughty girl!” I laughed and asked him if he was surprised. He wasn’t… 😉 it’s good when your partner works out…they’ve got the cardio and stamina to keep up with our healthy apitites. 😉


    • I love your comment, Kitt. There are so many more positions… Looks like I’m going to have to write another blog on this subject 🙂


  5. Hum, I think in my younger days, I’ve tried all those positions………
    Loved the excerpt. will be checkin out the book.


  6. Ann Q

    You are a person of many talents. Great author,easy to use sex position adviser. Thanks, we can all use a bit of a nudge at times.


    • Hi, Ann Q. Thnx for your comment. You give me too many props, I assure you. But I’ll take the “great author…” I’m flattered. Sex Advisor, uhh, well, hmm… I won’t mind taking that one, too :))


  7. I love giveaways. This is the time I announce the winner of the .pdf of Dreaming Ivy. Congrats to Tiss… You won !!!! Yay !!! Please email at rhondaleecarver.author@gmail.com and let me know the email address where you’d like it sent. Thank you all for commenting and making this a wonderful experience.


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