Learning Something New and Naughty Every Day!

In the evening after the house quiets down, my hubby, Kick, and I sit in our comfy chairs in the living room and play dueling media. No, it’s not anything naughty. I fire up my laptop and he powers up his Kindle Fire.

We talk about things we’ve discussed during the day and each of us searches for answers on Google. It’s a lot of fun and we get into some interesting subjects.

I’m working on a male/male series of books – starring cowboys, of course – and I’m reading a number of great erotic romances to learn more about the genre.

While in the middle of one of the books, I ran across a new word. Frot. I asked Kick if he’d ever heard of it. He hadn’t, so we began our dueling Googling.

I think we both came up with the answer at the same time because I sucked in a surprised breath at the same moment he let out a startled, “Huh?”

From the Urban Dictionary*: A sexy act between two men that involves them being naked, and rubbing their penises together. It can involve one’s hand, trying to bring the two together for pleasure, but isn’t always a necessity in the act.

He read that the word ‘frot’ is a slang term shortened from the word frottage, derived from the French verb frotter, which means ‘to rub’.**

Of course, some of the online sites had photos and instructional drawings as well, but we really didn’t need to see them. The description of frot is more than enough to put accurate visuals into our heads. True?

The next morning, I cracked my knuckles (figuratively) and got to work writing my first frot. Here’s the scene from my work in progress, Hot Springs Temptation, Book 1 of the Temptation Springs Ranch series. Hopefully it’ll put a sexy visual into your mind.

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Unedited excerpt: Brace wrapped his hand around the back of Ethan’s neck. Their eyes locked in the bright moonlight. “I shouldn’t.”

The moving water of the hot spring caressed Ethan from his belly down to his toes, sliding over his erect penis inside his trunks like a lover’s hand.

The cowboy tugged Ethan closer and pressed their lips together.

Ethan’s response nearly shot him over the edge. He opened his mouth, welcoming the invasion of Brace’s tongue. And it was an invasion. Their tongues parried as his cowboy licked and sucked, bit and teased. They found every inch of each other’s mouths, the tasting desperate, the passion exploding.

Brace kept one hand on Ethan’s neck, the other slid down his hip and into the waistband of his trunks. Cupping his ass cheek, Brace squeezed and drew him closer.

Ethan needed to feel everything, every inch of his cowboy. His hands traced the bulging muscles at his shoulders, the rocks that bulged as biceps, chest muscles covered in the slick, soft water, and abs that were created from hard work.

Brace ended the kiss and pulled back. “Fuck.”

The curse was all Ethan needed to hear. Tugging the front of Brace’s boxer briefs from his hard rod, he slid the underwear down over the corded muscles of his thighs. Ethan nipped at Brace’s lower lip as he wrapped a hand around his huge, pulsing cock.

The cowboy’s body shuddered and a feral moan escaped his lips.

Sliding his hand along the slick length, Ethan closed his eyes, picturing the perfect cock he held in his hands. Thick, it would stretch his jaw when he sucked it, open his anus wide when he took it in his ass. Both images made that hot spot in his lower back tense with need.

Wrapping his hand around the head, he explored the ridge with his fingertips. The man’s cock was a handful, and just getting that big head into his sphincter would be enough to make him come like a geyser.

Brace’s hands fumbled at the string on the front of Ethan’s trunks then jerked as he tore the damn thing in two. “Sorry.”

Ethan smiled. Always courteous, always the gentleman. “Fucking rip the trunks off me if you want, cowboy.”

Looking into his eyes, Brace slipped his hand into the front of Ethan’s trunks and grabbed his shaft.

The sky swam above him as rivers of heat flowed from his cock to his balls. Using one hand, he tugged at his trunks while Brace use his free hand to help haul the waistband from him. The fabric slid down Ethan’s legs and pooled around his ankles, rubbing softly as the slowly moving water brushed against them.

Against Ethan’s palm, a spurt of slick pre-cum pulsed from Brace’s slit. He rubbed in circles around the big knob, using his thumb to tease the sensitive spot on bottom of the ridge.

Brace sucked in a breath and slid a rough hand up and down Ethan’s erection. Where his calluses rubbed, Ethan’s flesh tweaked with intense pleasure. Staring into Brace’s eyes, he watched the cowboy’s eyes narrow, heard his breath hitch as Ethan changed the motion of his hand to exactly match Brace’s motion on his staff.

With a hand on his ass, Brace tugged him closer until their cocks touched. The instant explosion of pleasure raced up his spine, and only a firm command to his brain kept him from shooting his load.

Brace’s big hand grabbed both their cocks and pressed them together.

Ethan did the same with his hand on the other side of their joined shafts, creating a slick channel.

The mineral-rich spring water made a natural lubricant, and the cowboy jerked his hips up, rubbing himself along Ethan’s cock, inside the tight tube of their hands.

Ethan fell into the opposite rhythm, sliding their cocks across each other’s in long, smooth glides, across their palms and fingers in hard, tight pleasure.

Brace used his free hand to make palm circles on the top of their shafts, the extra friction sending pulses of manic pleasure blasting through his staff, tightening his balls as a flare of heat burned up his spine. “Can’t stop it…” he cried as the orgasm overtook him.

Ethan grabbed Brace’s hair and pulled him in for a kiss more demanding than he’d ever dared take from a dominant. His mind exploded like beebees from a shotgun, wild and hot, scattering through his body in extreme flares of pleasure.

Cum, damn near hotter than the steaming water, shot from his sack and scorched through his cock in exquisite pulses. His muscles shook as his brain flooded with white noise and he sucked Brace’s tongue into his mouth.

The cowboy tensed and rammed his cock harder against Ethan’s. In his hand, the cowboy’s staff hardened and swelled even larger, hotter.

Brace twined his tongue around Ethan’s and cried out, a sound of pleasure and pain as he came hard and wild.

Ethan’s brain stutter stepped into another quick orgasm before the first had finished, the tingles from the earth-moving blast raced through his body as his balls pumped furiously, squeezing out another hot rope of cum.

Sharing fast breaths, they slowed the kiss and pulled back.

Ethan slid his hand from Brace’s hair, down to his neck where his pulse throbbed strong and rapid. Looking down, he watched as their cum mixed together and moved off in the light current of the spring.


Whew! That got me a little warm just copying and pasting it! 😉

What smutty term have you learned that you’d love to share with us? I’m always searching for something new to try…um, I mean, try out in my books! *giggle*

Hope you learn something new and naughty today!
Randi “Rode Hard and Put Up Satisfied”
Turn Up the Heat, Chase and Seduction, and Her Cowboy Stud are available at The Wild Rose Press and Amazon
Cowboy Bad Boys is available in digital format at Smashwords and Amazon
and in paperback from Createspace and at Amazon
Cowboy Lust is available in paperback and Kindle format at Amazon
*Urban Dictionary: Frot
**Wikipedia: Frot

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14 thoughts on “Learning Something New and Naughty Every Day!

  1. Fanning self! Nope, don’t know any other new smutty terms but that one certainly was eye-opening although don’t know if it will be accepted in my word games! What an excerpt (and picture!). Thanks for sharing and good luck with the WIP…you certainly are off to a excellently steamy start!


    • Randi Alexander

      Thank you, ELF, I’m enjoying every minute of writing this book. And oh, yes, love that cowboy! Just want to reach out and touch him…naughty me!


  2. I’m fresh out of smutty new words. Maybe because it’s still early and I haven’t had a chance to really scope out any. Great excerpt and good luck with your WiP.


    • Randi Alexander

      Aw, Lynn, maybe you’ll come up with one later in the day! They always seem to come to me just before bedtime. LOL


  3. Whew, now that was hot and naughyt! I’m going to have to remember the term! Thanks for sharing, Randi!


  4. Sky Robinson

    Frot? I like it 🙂


  5. One that doesn’t seem obscure to me at all (now – it sure did once! ) but that a lot of people don’t seem to be aware of is “figging”. Which would be the act of inserting ginger into various body parts for a burning sensation and sexy fun!
    But then I’m sure most people reading erotic book blogs know all about it these days!


    • Randi Alexander

      You’re right, Basia Rose! The more I read erotic, the more interesting things I learn. I love my job!

      Thanks for sharing! I read about figging in a Sophie Oak book, told my hubby about it, now when we’re in the grocery story, one of us will pick up a piece of ginger and we both start laughing. So silly!


  6. Everything sounds better in French, doesn’t it. Feuille de rose, anyone? (Anulingus.) And when was the last time you gave your partner a proper pattes d’arraignée? (Brushed your fingertips so lightly over their skin that all you’re really touching is hair.) Or some good old pompoir? (Pumped his penis with your inner muscles.)

    Happy writing, Randi! And have fun reading. 😉


    • Randi Alexander

      Ah, great terms, Dita. I love the brushing of fingertips lightly – not sure if a cowboy would say that, but if he were dating a french woman, definitely!


  7. Susan W.

    Now frot was a new one for me! I loved how you used it in the excerpt! I found one that I just had to Google while reading a m/m book. It was called a sound. The name of this device is based on the phrase “sounding the deep”. Yeah I bet you can guess what they were “sounding”! LOL! On one website they had some really pretty sounds and some that were, um, interesting!


    • Randi Alexander

      Susan, now you’ve got me curious. I’m going to have to Google! Thanks for commenting.


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